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Being the female breadwinner: honest talk about money and marriage
Founders, executives and second-career builders on earning more, carrying more, and talking about it out loud.
What is it like to be the female breadwinner?
Women who are the primary earners in their homes describe pride and pressure in equal measure. On Women Rising America they talk openly about guilt, about partners adjusting, and about the relief of finally saying money out loud. The thread through every story: clarity and conversation matter more than who earns what.
The part nobody says at dinner
Earning more can quietly change how a household works. The women in the series talk about the unspoken expectations that come with it — and how naming them changed their marriages for the better.
Building something of your own
Many cast members built businesses after a career turn, a health crisis or a divorce. Their advice is consistent: know your numbers, ask for help early, and let your work reflect who you actually are.
“I like being the breadwinner”
Women who've lived this
Elaine Damschen
Born to a Vietnamese mother who fled war-torn Vietnam and an American father who served in the U.S. Army, Elaine Damschen grew up in northern Idaho, where she learned the values of hard work, resilience, and perseverance.
Anne Carr
From the Australian outback mining town of Broken Hill to the heart of Silicon Valley, Anne’s journey is full of grit, curiosity, and a passion for empowering others. A former National level athlete in multiple sports, and recipient of the prestigious Commonwealth Full Sporting Blue for Volleyball, Anne graduated from Flinders University with a degree in Psychology and Sociology before embarking on a solo, 3 1/2 year backpacking adventure around the world that eventually led her to California.
Lane Dailey
Lane Dailey loves her career as a Certified Life Coach, Registered Dietitian, and Executive Nutrition Business Manager. A “jack of all trades,” Lane lives by the motto, “Never Give Up”—a philosophy life has repeatedly given her the opportunity to embrace.